Love Who You Are – Sparkle and Shine in Belldini
You may think I am a confident and pretty woman. But in fact, I have struggled my whole entire life to become really comfortable in my own skin.
Everybody knows how much damage a dark childhood can cause. My mom never liked me because I am not a boy and I didn’t know how to surrender to the unfair treatment. I had gotten beat up many times because I refused to say sorry to her when she treated me like dirt. My brother got more and better food than I did. He could buy just about everything, but I could only can wear his hand-me-down clothes. My mom often looked at me and said I am so ugly. She yelled me to stop singing because it was horrible…..
Although I have worked super hard to accomplish so much in my life, I still doubt myself a lot of times. Even now, I still have moments where I think I am not capable of something or look ugly. My husband was my biggest supporter and showed me what unconditional love was. But now, he passed away and I have to learn to deal with this by myself.
I have been thinking for a long time. Now it is the time for me to detach myself from my childhood damage. Those damages may never be fully repaired, but I can find a way to live with it peacefully. I also need to stop relying on others to tell me how amazing I am. I need to learn how to love and accept myself as I am.
So who am I? I am just a hard working woman who wants to be safe and happy. Sometimes I may be sensitive, sometimes I may be silly, and sometimes I like to keep everything inside, but I always like to use my clothes to speak for me. Just like the Belldini lace bomber jackets I am wearing in this post.
What do you think I want to express about myself in this Amazing Lace Bomber Jacket ?
For me, it is showing my feminine part, but the feather top and mirrored sunglasses also tell you I am a fun person to be around if I feel comfortable with you. 😉
What about this Long Sleeve White Lace Bomber with Matching Tank?
I want to tell you that I am capable and I can handle everything gracefully. 😉
Ok, enough about me. Let’s focus on the cute lace bomber jackets. What I love about them is of course the good quality. After I turned 40, quality became the No.1 factor for my wardrobe. It doesn’t matter how cute a piece of clothing is, if the quality is bad, I will never buy it. I need something I know I can count on in a rushed morning or when I have an important meeting.
The second thing I like about the jackets is that they go with everything. You can add your personal touch and totally come up very different looks than I did.
So now, let’s all learn how to “Love who you are and Sparkle and Shine in Belldini”
Photo credits: Ashley Buck.
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