Bold patterns to match a bold personality? Um, yes please! That’s one of the reasons I love fashion. You get to express yourself through the unique outfits you wear. There are times when fashion can be very touchy. Wearing the wrong shoes could potentially ruin a very cute outfit, for example. But there are other ‘rules’ of fashion many feel like they need to know. Keeping up with these latest fashion do’s and don’ts can definitely be exhausting. The good thing about this list is that 1. It’s an unofficial list which means 2. It pretty much stays the same for each person and 3. Your list can be completely different from everyone elses. Even then, as trends change some of these rules can even be ignored! My little list of fashion do’s and don’ts will for sure be different when compared to a 20-something college students. As a 45 year old, petite woman, my list will have fundamental differences. So what are some of my fashion do’s and don’ts?
Do’s:
- Wear heels. Being petite give you the advantage of being able to rock a pair of heels whenever you’re in the mood! Even if they’re not tall, having some platform to add something to your height pulls an outfit together and makes it the perfect amount of classy.
- Layer for fall. Nothing says ‘chic fall style’ like a layered outfit. Wearing cardigans or statement jackets make your outfit have that perfect balance of bundled yet cute. You can also layer by sporting a bold patterned scarf to add a pop of your colorful personality and style.
- Dress for your body type. No one knows your body better than you do! Yes, trends are so fun to keep up with, but know what flatters your shape and age the best. What my 25-year-old assistant wears is so cute and trendy, but it’s not always things that are appropriate for a 40-something year old woman.
- Mix-and-Match styles. Wearing a chic blazer and heels with jeans and a graphic tee is a trend I’ve definitely jumped on-board with. Another you’ve probably noticed is my business pantsuits that I like to pair with sneakers. Have fun with your outfits!
Then there are my don’ts.
Don’t:
- Don’t buy clothes that are too small. Be confident in your body. Don’t feel like you need to squeeze into clothes that don’t fit you just so you can say you are wearing a smaller size. Everyone has an awesome and unique body type that can look just as amazing with clothes that are their size! I’ve noticed that wearing smaller clothes actually accentuates the parts of your body you may not be fully comfortable with.
- Don’t show off your undergarments. If you’re wearing a strapless dress wear a strapless bra. Are you wearing form fitting pants or a skirt today? Make sure you’re checking in the mirror that there are no panty lines! Everyone knows your wearing them, that doesn’t mean they need to see them!
- Don’t clash patterns. This can easily get out of hand and may be too much, but sometimes risk equals reward… just be mindful of when to admit that a look is maybe not one to repeat.
- Don’t look like a mess. Even when dressing casual you can look put together. Make sure you don’t have stains or holes in your outfits. Your style shows how much you respect yourself and the situation you are in.
These are my basic do’s and don’ts, but like I said earlier popular trends can make me throw some of these rules out the window! That being said, one rule I can tuck away for the time being is ‘don’t clash patterns.’ Throw caution to the wind and be bold with patterns this fall!
One patterned trend I’m especially obsessed with this fall is wearing stripes on stripes on stripes! Trust me I know how it sounds, but it’s possible to blend them into an effortlessly chic outfit. While some may stick with the rule of ‘don’t clash,’ there is a right way to make it work. The first, and most important, thing to keep in mind is that wearing a striped top and separate striped bottom will only work if the stripes are different size in width (if you’re wearing thicker stripes on top, thinner ones on the bottom is necessary). Another big tip is to have the stripes going in different directions (horizontal striped top means vertical striped bottoms). The cute thing about this outfit is that it could work great with pants, but you can wear a striped skirt instead to add that extra level of chic.
Let’s take this one step further! Stripes on stripes is a big step for a lot of you, I get it, but for those of you who want to take this a step even further out of your comfort zone you can by adding another pattern into the mix! When you’re wearing a full striped outfit and you want to add something else, I’d recommend adding a second pattern as an accessory piece. Whether it be a scarf, sunglasses, or– like I’ve chosen for this particular look– a handbag. The extra pattern I’ve picked is the classy, and quickly rising trend of cheetah print. Adding another print, like I said earlier, is a very touchy part of fashion. So, make sure that you’re not trying to over power the stripes!
Now that we’re looking at this on the rise trend, let’s look at some summer and fall “do’s and don’ts” while keeping in mind the two basic rules when wearing stripes:
Do’s:
- Wear fun colored stripes in the summer! Black and white stripes, or navy and white, is for sure a classic, but wearing white and light pink really make it a summer outfit. You can make this outfit summer appropriate by keeping light colors throughout the whole look.
- Wear flowy outfits for the summer. The combination of loose tops with skirts or short, while rocking light colored stripes, is a great way to get in the summer mood.
- Use stripes to your advantage! One way to do this is when shopping for fall outfits, try and find striped sweaters and long sleeve tops that criss-cross in the front. Wrap tops give the illusion of a slimmer waist-line.
Don’ts:
- Don’t be hesitant to wear cheetah print accessories with your stripes. Trust me, it’s not too much! And the colors from the cheetah print make it the perfect fall outfit.
- Don’t wear horizontal stripes on your more accentuated areas. If you have bigger hips, wear vertical striped pants or skirts with a horizontally striped top. On the flip side, if you have a larger bust, wear vertically striped tops and horizontal bottoms.
- Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone! Wearing things you normally wouldn’t can be stressful. But, learning to be confident in yourself and your decisions is what helps us grow as people.
Let your personality shine through your outfits! A comfort zone is a beautiful place, but nothing ever grows there.
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47 Comments
Jennifer
I love the stripes on stripes!
Jennifer
Effortlessly Sophisticated
Grace Liang
Thank you Jennifer! It’s such a fun look! 🙂
mireille
What a great look! I love how different the stripes look!
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much, Mireille! I’m glad you liked this look! 🙂
Ellibelle
The outfit is beautiful! I would have never thought to put these two striped patterns together but they works so well together!
Such great do’s and don’t tips in this post. Thank you for sharing!
Ellibelle’s Corner
Grace Liang
Thank you so much for your kind words, Ellibelle! I’m glad you liked this look and found my tips helpful! 🙂
Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom
Beautiful! I love the contrast of the wide and skinnier stripes. And, I love your hair in these photos!
Carrie
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Grace Liang
Thank you very much, Carrie! You’re so kind! 🙂
Dara
Great advice and cute outfit!
Grace Liang
Thank you Dara! I really appreciate your support!
Kathrine Eldridge
Love the mix of bold stripes! These tips are spot on. Thanks so much for the link up Grace!
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much for your kind words, Kathrine! I’m glad you liked my tips! 🙂
Ruth
Wow Grace you look amazing! I adore the stripes and how you made this outfit look so chic!
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Grace Liang
You’re so sweet Ruth, thank you! It is definitely one of my favorite outfits!
Biana
I love the way you mixed these stripes! Such a great look! xo, Biana BlovedBoston
Grace Liang
Thank you so much, Biana! I really appreciate it! 🙂
Amy Ann Arnold
Love this awesome mix of stripes! Looks great on you!
Amy Ann
Straight A Style
Grace Liang
Thank you Amy! You’re so sweet! 🙂
Cheryl Shops
I love this stripe-on-stripe outfit and your very wise advice! Thanks for sharing so many great tips!
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much for your kind words and for stopping by Cheryl! I really appreciate it! 🙂
Leonora
I love this outfit – It look so good on you! ;))
BH
Leonora
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much Leonora! It was such a fun outfit to wear! 🙂
Kimberly Malkiewicz
You look stunning, Grace! It’s a good idea to remember having the stripes go different directions. I don’t find many stripes that I really like–I’ll have to keep my eyes opened.
Grace Liang
Thank you, Kimberly! I always struggle to find good striped pieces as well, but i’m sure you will find something you like! 🙂
Babita
Loved your stripes over stripe look for fall! Looks so beautiful on you!
xo Babita
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much! You’re so sweet! 🙂
Ashley
I love taking a fashion risk here and there, too! I love these mixed stripes- such a fun look!
-Ashley
Le Stylo Rouge
Grace Liang
Right!? It’s always fun to take fashion risks sometimes! Thank you for stopping by Ashley!
Danielle
I really love those booties. they are perfect for fall.
Grace Liang
Thank you, Danielle! They have definitely been my go-to boots this season!
Allie Mackin
Oh I love how you mixed the stripes here and then added a pop of leopard print. Well done. And I so agree with your don’t list.
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Grace Liang
Thank you, Allie! That means so much coming from you! You have amazing style. 🙂
Emma Peach
I love mix of stripes! The wrap top is fabulous!
Emma xxx
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much, Emma! I love a good wrap top! 🙂
Shelbee on the Edge
Such a cool outfit, Grace! The double stripes definitely make a bold statement. At first, when I read you were going to list do’s and don’ts, I cringed a little because I hate fashion rules. But then your don’t list just made me chuckle! Wear clothes that fit and ones that aren’t stained. Those are rules I can stand by! It’s all the other nonsense rules like no mini skirts after 30 that I can’t tolerate! Great styling tips you shared here. Thank you!
Shelbee
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much, Shelbee. I always love to see you here! I’m definitely not one to like fashion rules either, but i do have a few i like to stick with lol! 🙂
aditi oberoi malhotra
I never knew stripes on stripes could look that good! You look stunning, hon.
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Grace Liang
Aw, thank you so much Adi! I really appreciate it!
Gina
So fun to read your Dos and Don’ts! You always look great in everything you wear and this outfit is no exception. 🙂
Grace Liang
You’re so nice, Gina! Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed reading this post! 🙂
Kellyann Rohr
That top looks terrific on you! I am a huge fan of pattern mixing but I’ve never done stripes with stripes – brilliant!
xo,
Kellyann
Grace Liang
Thank you so much, Kellyann! You should definitely try mixing stripes on stripes! Such a fun look. 🙂
Jill
Love the stripes on stripes! Such a chic look!
Jill – Doused in Pink
Grace Liang
Thank you Jill! Definitely one of my favorite looks! 🙂
P-and-P
Nice outfit. 🙂
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Grace Liang
Thank you so much! I appreciate it!
Jessica
What a fabulous combo dear! Love it!
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