As a widow who has experienced grief firsthand, I have to tell you that you may be grieving the wrong way!! I know this statement may make some of you angry. Before you start to throw eggs, bricks or knives at me, just hear me out!
We have all been taught that only time will heal us and that we have no power over our grief. Therefore, all we can do is to wait out our grief. This means that we have to suffer for a long time and that our grieving journey will never end. Does this sound familiar?
Have you ever asked yourself if this is actually true?
Grief is a legitimate and intense internal injury. We don’t see blood, cuts or wounds with a grief injury but they are still there. Losing a spouse is like physically losing half of your body and the emotional pain can be very intense! Can you imagine your doctor looking at a huge cut on your body and he tells you to just hang in there without treating you? That sounds crazy, right?
This is exactly how our traditional methods deal with grief. It is believed that we can simply wait out our grief and in time we will heal on our own.
Using this theory, there are 3 ways to deal with our grief.
1.) Totally push your grief aside and numb yourself from your emotions. While you won’t feel that much pain, you also won’t feel much joy either.
2.) Seek help from a psychologist where once a week you sit and cry for an hour. You may feel better for a short amount of time but when a grief attack starts, you have no clue what to do except be miserable.
3.) Wait for time to heal and end up becoming stuck in your grief for years. I have seen women who have been stuck in their grief for 20+ years! They are still living in the same house, have kept everything from their late husband and still cry when someone mentions their late husband’s name.
Which of these methods are you using to deal with your grief? None of these ways sounds great, right?
You may be asking yourself if there is a better way to heal from grief that involves less suffering and faster healing?
The answer is YES! There is a better way to heal that involves less suffering and faster healing.
When God created humans, he gave us white blood cells to fight off illnesses which allows our physical body to heal. He also gave us a built-in healing power within each one of us located in our subconscious minds. We simply just need to know how to tap into this power in order to use it.
This new way of treating grief is through the use of energy healing techniques. Energy healing comes from a newer method area that most people have no knowledge of. Here is how it works.
Emotions are energy. In fact, an emotion is simply energy in motion. Grief is a whole package of intense emotions. In order to treat energy problems, it would make sense to only use energy healing tools, right? Taking medicine, waiting it out, becoming an addict or running away from your grief is not going to help.
The best part is we don’t need to depend on someone who has special healing powers to heal us. We ALL have this built-in healing system within our subconscious minds!
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Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional!