• Being the best of me,  See the world,  wokshop

    Everyone Needs a Break Sometimes

    I have been so incredibly blessed with all of the amazing things I’ve been able to do since starting this blog five years ago. What began as a fashion and beauty blog transformed into a blog about living with the cancer of my late husband that then transformed again into a blog about being a grieving widow that continued to evolve into me learning to live life to the fullest. Now, I want to take everything I’ve learned over the years of living and learning and help others learn to do the same. This Monday I will be traveling to Palm Springs, California to participate in two weeks of training…

  • Being the best of me,  Life Style,  Living in America

    Celebrating Women’s Equality Day

    Today celebrates the anniversary of the day the United States adopted the 19th Amendment in 1920, the amendment that allowed Women to vote in elections. While women have come a long, long way since then, it’s important to know our fight towards equality is not over.  Celebrating today is especially important to me because when I was a little girl growing up in rural China, girls were not valued the way boys were valued. I remember one time when my mother had gotten us a little bit of food since we often went without it, she gave more to my brother because he was seen as the more important one…

  • Being the best of me,  social media influencer,  wokshop

    The Importance of Learning Body Wisdom

    By Natalie Berger (Grace’s assistant) Sunday evening, I got a phone call. I had recently applied for a position as a personal assistant to rising social media star Grace Liang, known for her chic sense of fashion and lifestyle blogging. I met her for the first time several months ago while I was hosting a podcast and was instantly enamored with her confidence, self-awareness, and can-do attitude. So often people preach “you can do anything you want if you set your mind to it,” but most of the time, those people are just digging into a bag of stock quotes to tell their friends when they are feeling down about…

  • Being the best of me,  Fashion

    Susan G. Komen 3-Day Walk Recap

    As I’m writing this Susan G. Komen 3-day walk recap I have frozen bags of peas over the most sore spots on my body. Which isn’t saying much since my whole body is sore. Even so, I would not trade the past 3 days for anything.  When I first learned about the Susan G. Komen walk 10 years ago I was so inspired, but couldn’t financially join the fundraiser group. As most of you know, around 2.5 years ago I lost my late husband to lymphoma . The pain of watching someone you love slowly be lost to cancer is a heart wrenching one that I wouldn’t wish on my…

  • Being the best of me,  Fashion

    60 Miles Walk For Breast Cancer In Michigan

    The Susan G. Komen Michigan 3-Day Walk is finally here. While reading this, I have joined more than 500,000 people nationwide who have walked 60 miles over 3 days, raising funds to help end breast cancer. I have raised $2,300. It’s a challenge. Walking 3 days for 60 miles is not easy, but it’s not as hard as breast cancer. I know I will be very tired and sore, but I am sure I will be also very inspired by all the amazing people who will walk with me side by side. It will be a once in a life-time journey and I can’t wait to share more details with you next week. So make sure…

  • Being the best of me,  Fashion

    What Will Happen After Your Trapped Emotions Are Released?

    Lately, trapped emotions have become two key words in my life and career. Lol! You probably have heard me talking about it on my social media. I am hosting a workshop, Clear Emotional Blocks Through Body Wisdom next month. I have noticed that people are not familiar with this line of work about Body Wisdom, Emotional Blocks or Trapped Emotions. So I am writing this post to give more explanation. What Is Trapped Emotion Exactly? Trapped emotions are created or trapped because of events earlier in life. Most of them are dramatic events, like losing a loved one, getting a divorce, being involved in a car accident, or getting layoff……

  • Susan G Komen 3-Day Walk Fundraiser Party Recap
    Being the best of me

    Susan G Komen 3-Day Walk Fundraiser Party Recap

    This past Sunday, my 3-Day Walk partner Alison Hill and I held our Susan G Komen Breast Cancer Fundraiser Party at our beloved Area45 Fitness in Troy, Michigan. It was a long day and a lot of work leading to the party, but it was a success and Alison reached her goal of $2300. Now we can walk together as a team of Color and Grace this August 2nd to 4th! It has been more than 4 months after I personally signed up to walk 60 miles in 3 days to raise money for breast cancer research. First I recruited Alison as my team member. Then I reached my personal…

  • Get What You Want || Women's Empowerment Starts On A Personal Level
    Being the best of me,  Fashion

    Get What You Want || Women’s Empowerment Starts On A Personal Level

    What is your definition of women’s empowerment?  For me, it is about women being free to be our independent selves. Being treated equally by others in all aspects of life without a gender label. As a woman, I understand I must acquire empowerment myself rather than having it given to me by others. But are we focusing on empowering only certain areas of a woman’s life (like our careers or family life)? Are we limiting ourselves? What about our empowerment in the bedroom and intimate relationships? Women have been socialized to put their needs second to their partner’s needs, both inside and outside of the bedroom. For me, women’s empowerment…

  • Empowering Women with Natori || I am Good Enough
    Being the best of me,  Fashion,  Fitness/healthy life style

    Empowering Women with Natori || I am Good Enough

    This post is partnered with Natori. But all opinions are my own. I used to hate my body and dislike myself for a long time. The memory of my mom yelling at me saying how ugly I am and showing me her discussed face seemed to haunt me for a long time. Then I turned 13 years old, my period came and my boobs started to grow. I got yelled at for being a dirty women now. My mom was super ashamed of my body because my boobs were bigger than the average Chinese girls. She made me hunch over so I can make my boobs appear smaller. She yelled…

  • Susan G Komen 3-Day Walk Fundraiser Party On June 2nd
    Being the best of me,  Michigan Fashion events/interviews

    Susan G Komen 3-Day Walk Fundraiser Party On June 2nd

    It has been about 4 months after I personally signed up to walk 60 miles in 3 days to raise money for breast cancer research. I have reached my personal goal of $2300 but now I need you all to help my small team to walk together! We need about $2000 at this point to make our Color and Grace Team quality to the walk in Auguest in Michigan. You can read my post here to understand why Alison and I are taking on this challenge. My team member Alison Hill and I are hosting the Self Care Sunday for a Cause fundraiser party on June 2nd at Area45 Fitness…

  • Being the best of me,  Fashion

    Being the Best of Me || The Healing Journey from an Abusive Childhood

    Two weeks ago during a meditation program called Tree of Life in Train the Trainer with Jack Canfield, I finally broke through and felt the major healing from my abusive childhood. My parents had an arranged marriage. They hated each other but still chose to stick together after daily fights. We were super poor with a dirt floor, straw roof and there wasn’t running water, indoor toilet or electricity. Above suffering from poverty, I had been claimeed as worthless by my mom. According to her, no one will love me since I am so ugly and have a very bad personality. According to her, I am lazy, bad behaved and…

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