Life After Loss || How we met #2

Life After Loss || How we met #2

“How did you guys meet?” This is probably the most frequent question I have been asked about my late husband and myself. I have to say, it was kind of unlikely for us to meet. He was American and lived in Michigan, I am Chinese and lived in Shanghai. Physically, it is almost impossible to meet. But then, at that very important day and time, our paths crossed.

Life After Loss || How we met #2

This is the second part of this story, read the first part here before you continue.;)

Life After Loss || How we met #2

Remember, at that moment I knew almost zero English, so my best friend and my client were translating for me during the conversation with these 3 guys. You know the instinct that every women has which tells us if a guy is interested in us? The slim guy who sat right next to me was staring at me for a long time and making me very uncomfortable. Suddenly, I felt someone’s arm around my waist. My first reaction was to push the hand away from me. The hand turned out to belong to the slim American guy. I was not sure how to handle it. Was it just a common American gesture? Was I being super rude? Before I had the chance to think more, his hand was on my waist, AGAIN! I turned around and he was just giving me a big flirting smile.

Life After Loss || How we met #2

I was very angry. What was this? Who do you think I am? No one would dare to do that in my own culture. I was being polite and now he was just given an inch, and wanted a mile. I pushed his hand away again and stood up. I told my partner and my client I was leaving. They both left with me. On the way out, my parter told me, “You should see the look on his face!” I was like, do I really care? I was already being very polite by not slapping him.

Life After Loss || How we met #2

My partner joked a lot after this incident. She was the type of girl that most Chinese consider a beauty; tall, slim, pale skin with a beautiful face. Wherever we went, she was always the center of attention and there were many men wanting to talk to her. I was just a girl that no one ever noticed, but I was totally fine with it and I was ok earning everything in my life by working hard. My friend even said one time we could be best friends for many years because I was never jealous of her. Anyway, it was the only time that someone hit on me, not her. I seriously didn’t take this American guy hitting on me as a compliment.

Life After Loss || How we met #2

A few days later, my partner suddenly asked me “Do you remember the other American guy with us last week?” “Sort of. Why?” “He wants to know your contact info.” I was like, what is wrong with those American guys? “No!!” I answered. She looked at me and said “Do you want to learn English?” She always knew how to persuade me. Yup, I do, very much! I felt embarrassed for not knowing English that day and I did want to learn more. “But what if the other American guy is also a jerk?” “Just give him your email, he can’t climb over the internet to harm you.” “Fine.”

Life After Loss || How we met #2

The other American guy and I started our pen pal journey. It took me at least two hours to write an email to him in English by using a dictionary. He was always very patient with my painful grammar and confusing sentences. Oddly, he got me. He understood me very well. And I understood him! We had many deep conversations about life and I realized that I couldn’t wait to receive his email every other day. I still didn’t think much about him because he was much older than me, he was not Chinese, he was not the type of guy that I usually like… But the more time I spent with him, the more I realized, underneath this overweight middle aged American man, was the soul I had been searching for and waiting for my whole life.

Life After Loss || How we met #2

You can read all the Life After Loss series here and Living with Cancer series here.

Life After Loss || How we met #2

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