Over 40s fashion tips

Where is everybody?

I’ve been in the USA for almost 8 years. I think I fit in pretty good now but it wasn’t always that way. When I first moved I had a very serious case of culture shock. Not only was I moving to a place where I barely spoke the language, but I was also going from Shanghai, a city with a population of almost 20 million to a small town in Michigan with less than 10,000 people! I think there were probably more than 10,000 people in my block of apartments in Shanghai! I had a few days to get a bit used to our little house and neighborhood with my fiancé before he had to go back into his office. Our small town was about an hour drive to his office so he had to leave early and didn’t come back until about 6pm. That first day he left me on my own, I didn’t have much to do and no one to talk to. So I thought I’d go for a walk and explore my new hometown.

street style

There was a lake nearby and some parks and playgrounds for the local children. I decided I would walk along the lake and see where it went. I was gone for hours! On the other side of the lake were a lot of very small houses and narrow streets that went up and down hills and around corners. Looking back, I think this idea was probably a little bit crazy! If I had gotten really lost I wouldn’t know how to ask for help or even how to tell them where I wanted to go. I didn’t have a cell phone yet and had never driven a car in my life. I really don’t like to use stereotypes but I think it’s probably true that Asian women aren’t very good with directions. At least it is sure that way with me! Even now, 8 years later, I never go anywhere without my GPS receiver! One thing that was pretty unusual to me was that I saw very few people out walking. In Shanghai you never see an empty sidewalk or street but I was pretty much by myself on my whole walk. When I did see someone, they were always very nice and said hello to me. That was also quite different from Shanghai. It seems that everyone there is in a hurry to get somewhere and just don’t seem to notice other people. And they almost never say hello to you.

jean jacket
jean jacket

Somehow I actually found my way back to our house and I was there waiting when my future husband came home from his work. When I told him where I had gone and how long it took, he decided the first thing we needed to do was get me a mobile phone. If worse came to worst, I could call him and hand the phone to someone he could talk to so they could help me out. Of course he was just being worried about me being in a strange area. But I had done a lot of travelling on my own in China and was a pretty capable woman. I went on many more walks and started to find my way around the town pretty well. And I’m happy to say, I never had to call him for help because I couldn’t find my way back to our home! I arrived in Michigan in April. This is a pretty good month to be here. The long winter is finally over and the colors of spring pop up literally overnight! I loved walking around our area looking at all the flower gardens our neighbors had. I soon found out that we even had some beautiful blooms in our tiny yard and garden. I started planning my next adventure and decided I would go into our little town and see how the shopping was. You can read about what I found in tomorrow’s post!

Jean fashion

Jean jacket

Jean on jean

leopard bag

black flatform booties

casual chic

Two tune shirt

Jean Jacket @Kohl’s
Two tone shirt @China
Necklace @J Crew
Leopard bag @Express You can see more leopard choices here.
Skinny Jeans @Forever 21
Shoes @Nordstrom Rack


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I am an Inner-Power coach. I transform people to get what they want by using their body wisdom to activate their inner-power and remove emotional blocks.


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