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Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit

So let’s pretend. Say someone comes up to you and offers to give you 25 dollars. For the money these people hope you can talk to your friends, family and co-workers and tell them that something they have to sell is great and that they should take your word for it. You’ve never seen what the people are selling and when you asked to see it, this person told you “sorry, that’s not part of the deal. There are a lot of pretty photos on our website though”. Do you feel comfortable? The people you’re trying to influence are the ones who followed you for a long time and trust you. How much is that worth? I know; crazy right? Who would even think of that? Well apparently lots of people! And many of them have blogs just like me. This is exactly what’s happened to me several times already. I’ve only been blogging for less than half a year but I am taking it super seriously. My goal is someday to become a blog that people can come to for guidance. When that happens it means I have become an “influencer”. This is what many bloggers are hoping for.

Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit

So I’m actually sort of surprised. Maybe it means I’m still too new at this. Now don’t get me wrong, there are lots of great companies out there that have wonderful relationships with bloggers. I work with a few already and am always open to hearing from more. But I have a few pretty reasonable rules. I have to take a look at the products. I mean in my hands. I want to make sure the quality is something I would buy before I would recommend them to you. You are why I am doing this. I consider many of you to be friends even though we haven’t met face to face. I work hard and plan to be around for a long time. You can’t be successful in this blogosphere without repeat business. You don’t get that without being up front and honest. And you don’t get that if you can’t SEE WHAT YOU’RE PROMOTING! Duh!

Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit

Anyway, I’ve found a couple websites that I use to check out other websites! There are probably many more that I am not aware of and I hope you can add your comments with your suggestions on where else we can look to make sure we’re getting what we pay for as a comsummer. The ones I’ve found are and I found both these sites by good old fashioned Googling! I’m not sure if I can say old fashioned and Google in the same sentence yet but it seems they’ve been around a long time! Anyway, if you are worried about a web retailer you can do a lot to check them out before you type in your credit card number or agree to work with them! These sites can tell you if there’s something not quite right with the site. Maybe they have a lot of bad feedback. Or maybe they are hiding their real location. These web-tattle-tales aren’t perfect and are the first to admit they may not know the whole story, especially if the site is new. BUT if I get a bad report from these places AND the site wants to just give me a little cash instead of a sample I can check out, I’ve got a pretty good idea that you’re not going to hear about this place from me! After all, we may never meet face to face but I still want to be on your “Favorites” list!

Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit

So the bottom line is, being a blogger, we do influence people. That means we need to take responsibility for what we write, say and promote. But we’re human too and that means we get tempted to maybe do something we shouldn’t. When I first started my blog I was pretty excited as my number of followers grew. And then, it wasn’t too long before I heard from a company that wanted to pay me $20 to write a post praising their webstore and put out a few backlinks to their site. WOW! I thought, now I’m getting some attention! I was pretty excited because I really wanted to be able to show my family and friends that somebody would pay me money to write a post. That meant a sort of validation. A lot of people don’t understand the whole blog scene and think it’s just a hobby. So anyway, I asked that company to give me a sample so I can decide if it is good quality. But instead, they gave me the website to let me check it out and provided an example post. Of course, the website looked very good and the example post sounded ok too. But when I checked them out online, I found out they were hiding their real identity and there was a lot of bad customer feedback. Even with this I was still trying to talk myself into it, I mean they wanted to pay ME! It wasn’t much but I wanted that 20 dollars to show I was successful. Thankfully my husband reined me in by saying: “I remember you said you will never lie to your readers”. How bad was that? I was ready to sell my good word for the price of a lunch! But I learned my lesson. I turned down that deal and more similar offers after that.

My point is, everybody wants to be successful, but we need to also think about our responsibility of being a blogger. There are so many followers who trust and respect you, some from day one. Let me know your story about sponsored posts.

Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit
Casual chic weekend outfit

Hat @old from Kohl’s
Purple heart print shirt @Loft
Ripped boyfriend jeans @JUSTFAB
Fringe backpack @TJ Maxx
Silver shoes @Nordstrom Rack
Mirror sunglasses @TJ Maxx


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  1. Preach it sister! Amen! I am so proud of you. I get asked to do posts like this at least once a month from some cheap wedding dress or prom dress sites and in scamadviser they are high risk. I succumbed in the beginning and did help them out for a post but later learned better. I also made the mistake in the past of offering a “free” post- months to a company that approached me. Down the road I deleted the post, because they were harassing me about adding different links even months after doing the post. I Have learned better and now seem to only do product reviews as I want my viewers to see the real deal too.
    Haha I love your photo of almost hitting the camera with the purse. Cute outfit too. Have a good Memorial Day weekend Grace.

    Garay Treasures

  2. Ah yes, I get them too of course. And I don’t do posts for random prom, wedding or other dress sites either. I don’t use them, so why would I review the site? And especially not for 20$. I do product reviews, which actually with my format of remixing items a lot and wear things a lot is a pretty good deal for the companies, but I only review stuff that I would really use. I didn’t do a product review for glasses because well I don’t need them and no, I don’t use them as fashion asseccory either.

    Have a nice weekend Grace 🙂

    Alex – Funky Jungle

  3. This is so true and oh my goodness, it seems the longer I blog, the more emails I get like this!! I really prefer to have the product in my hands, too and I will review their site to make sure they are legit. I also get some really poorly written emails from companies and there are typos, etc… I am not working with a company that can’t even edit their email of their typos! Your outfit is so cute and I love the rich and deep purple in your top. I have been seeing your black fringe bag a lot on here and love it!


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